You Have The Power To Change
By Samar Bishouti/ Free Soul Hi my name is Samar I am human who has a free soul that loves freedom and life, a passionate dreamer, yet a believer that highly believes in her purpose. “True life can be hard sometimes, but don’t be hard on yourself, learn from your experiences, love your past, live the present and embrace your future, because everything happens for a reason. You are a human, you are allowed to live and love freely.” “They always say if you want change start by changing your mindset. If you want to see the good in the change process start by changing your perspective so you can allow yourself to see the good and even beyond.” CHANGE I believe that changing the mindset is always the first step to change, so when we allow ourselves to change our mind, we then start to allow ourselves to choose to accept the change with love and hope. Now the big question is... Do you Accept change? or do you RESIST? And et me ask you thistle; if you resist are you willing to allow yourself to stop resisting and accept the change?
But first, let’s talk about what change really is? Allow me to share with you my thoughts about this; I always like to refer to change as leaving what we call comfort zone. But why comfort zone when it’s no longer so comforting? it feels unbearable, urging you to listen, take steps, ready to leave, expand, grow, accept, and change. When it comes to change we always hear this a lot, but I am not talking about that type of change; the “external” change. I am talking about “internal” change, that change that leads to external events to change, current situations to change, a fresh start, beginning a new chapter. We all have faced changes in our life at least once and I am pretty sure a lot has faced major changes or unplanned changes. If you did or you’re going through one right now and you’re still standing strong, praise yourself... you are a warrior. Yes, you are a true warrior. Who said that change is easy? Who said it’s an easy step to take? Who said it’s easy to accept, especially the change you didn’t choose? The kind of change that simply chose you? Yes, change is amazing, it feels good, it smells like a blooming lotus flower, a breeze of soul nourishment, its beautiful. But change doesn’t come with a half empty bag, it’s the opposite, it comes with a full bag, you can say a “full package” and its truly amazing yet valuable. So don’t resist… Because Guess what? Not all changes are planned ahead, it might simply arrive unplanned, but always know and believe this: What you went through in the past was already preparing you, and what you’re going through now is also preparing you for an abundant tomorrow. Don’t resist, you are prepared for the change, also the change that you didn’t choose, the one that chose you and trust me it didn’t choose you by coincidence it chose you for a reason. And yes, you may feel that you’re not ready yet, you can’t understand what is happening, but you are ready. And always remember that each phase in life has its unique way of leading you to a new change. Start by accepting change, and the fact that change will happen no matter what whether you choose it, or it chooses you, and if it chose you know that it did for a very good reason. Resisting change means we are resisting your own reality, the NOW. Sometimes it’s going to feel like you are suffocating from the inside, you can’t breathe you need more air, your soul is screaming “ENOUGH”. But its ok it’s part of the process, its normal you are leaving your comfort zone, trust the process and trust yourself, don’t resist; resisting leads you to nowhere. Remember it’s a full package. Allow yourself to accept it with an open warming heart, accept it with love. "In life there is always two roads to live, either the lightened or the dimmed road. You choose... lead your way, accept with love, and live freely. You always have the power to choose your own road and lead it your way." -Samar Love, Samar